A spreadsheet that is also a date

What is this game? This work is a lyric game, that I guess is technically maybe a video game because its all digital? But also you play it via a spreadsheet so its a pen and paper game kinda? But you dont roleplay, youre just yourself, so its more of a generator? Maybe this is just a set of instructions? And you follow the instructions by yourself but then go on the actual date with another person, so tis both one player and then multiplayer? Actually nevermind. Fuck, categorizing things is hard...